Current statistics reveal that there are about 7.5 billion people living in this world. That’s probably the reason why too many people are having a hard time finding their “the one”. And you consider yourself lucky if you are happily married and you’ve already found that person that you want to be with for the rest of your life.
But for those who are still in the process of finding the one, the challenge still continues. If you are one of them, then you might be thinking of seeking help of a matchmaker. Although there have been too many debate and talk about how effective matchmaking could get, let’s try to take a closer look, does it really work?
Finding the one
Although too many people believe in Divine Interventions, and let the universe decide, some are still wanting to do something about it while waiting. The saying that says you don’t need to look for love because love will find you doesn’t seem to work. Especially for those who already are trying to catch the last trip. And they all end up asking help from the experts for them to find the best one for them.
When seeking assistance from matchmakers, there two sides of it. Some would say that matchmaking is a business and it doesn’t really guarantee ever after or you’ll end up with the right person. Since you’d be paying some professional fee just to be able to find your “the one”, it would also mean that you are expecting to get results.
Getting matchmakers to help you, you’ll get the following advantage. First, you’ll have someone to help you search for the right person. Since matchmakers would need to make sure that they’ll be able to find the best, they’ll do the right screening for your potential match. You’ll even have a change to create your own requirement list about who are looking for. This will save you time and energy to do the searching yourself. It will also lessen the burden of waiting.
Does it work?
However, the most important question that needs to be answered is, does it really work? I guess this can be answered by those who have experienced it. Or the percentage of people ended up happy together after being matched. Although many matchmakers claim that they have helped a lot of people to find the right person for them. That still doesn’t say a lot about their effectiveness.
If you happen to bump across some testimonials of people who were able to find their the one about how matchmaking played a big part, then it might seem that these matchmaking process actually works. However, in general, matchmaking will only work out if both parties actually worked together to end up being happy. Matchmakers are probably are big help for you to find someone suitable for a date. But how well you’d do on your first date will still depend on you.
Matchmakers indeed work. But they won’t be effective if you won’t help yourself to be the better one!